Nothing is wrong if it’s between two consenting adults. It’s just fantasy. Newsflash: Don’t allow woke PCism in your bedroom unless you want it there. If something off the beaten path makes your dick hard, I guarantee there’s someone out there with the EXACT same fetish (or an escort willing to oblige). With trust in… Read more »
I have I have definitely role played and fantasized about being raped! I gotta remind myself that these are pleasureful scenes that my mind has created in which I end up liking what is done to me. In real life this would not be the case. It would probably by… Read more »
Kxev
Honestly- this is not good for your mental health. I used to have this fetish. It was rooted in abuse. sorry. I think this is out of style like crossing bathrooms are out. Try getting off another way. Also fetished this and moved on after 30 as I was… Read more »
It was not right FOR YOU.
It was based in abuse FOR YOU.
That’s certainly not the case for everyone.
Don’t paint with too-wide a brush. It never tends to end well.
Forced sex fantasies have psychological roots and personal and social impacts. Sure explore it and move on if you are a mentally stable person. it is a fact however that abusive past leads to these fetishization – I had it. It lead and keep fueling low self esteem. When you… Read more »
I completely see how someone could get into this cycle and it be a terrible long term behavior. You realized it. You moved on. That’s fantastic. However, don’t discount that there are millions of mentally healthy people out there who simply want something other than the missionary position. They function ‘normally’ otherwise, but… Read more »
jeezifonly
This sort of fantasy requires more than a couple of big asks from your top.
Earned absolute trust. (Prior meets)
Excellent acting, including experience with non-damaging physical combat. (A stage actor?)
Significant turn on – hot for you and for the scenario.
In a perfect world, you’d be exactly right. However, this isn’t a perfect world and truly anonymous, unplanned sex turns a lot of guys on. While letting their dick do all the thinking, I’ve heard some incredible (both sexy and stupid) stories of situations people have gotten themselves into. With many… Read more »
slimdude2
I have not found that perfect rape fantasy experience yet. Don’t mind having a dominant top manhandle me and have his way.
Isrhunter
As a a top I love to manhandle and play rough when dominating, of course communication is key.
poolboy48220
Agreed. I’m a total wuss when it comes to pain.
DapperGent
I think everyone should play out their sexual fantasies while our libido and bodies still can. I came out of the closet after my divorce in my 30s and I’ve been experimenting with abandon in a way making up for the lost time… Back to the topic! I particularly do… Read more »
chevrox
Rape fantasy is pretty common and simulated rape is very hot. Make sure you have a safe word or another means of interrupting a scene if things get too rough (which is okay to do). Actually being raped, not so much, doesn’t matter how hot the rapist is.
LFABWC
It isIt is more like a domination/slave/conquered situation (like S&M??) I find that hot (in fantasy)!!!…..and if I like the hunks…. If it was real I would be probably horrified more like a domination/slave/conquered situation (like S&M??) I find that hot (in fantasy)!!!…..and if I like the hunks…. If it… Read more »
poolboy48220
I’m turned on by being manhandled and controlled. I suppose that could be considered rape fantasy. I’m sure the reality is quite different.
Rick M
Is it wrong to want this? For myself, mind you, or perhaps as a third party with a top and consenting bottom. “But that’s not rape,” you’ll say. Okay… Simulated rape. I talked to a provider I trust and he’s willing to go along with idea, whenever we can get… Read more »
Nothing is wrong if it’s between two consenting adults. It’s just fantasy. Newsflash: Don’t allow woke PCism in your bedroom unless you want it there. If something off the beaten path makes your dick hard, I guarantee there’s someone out there with the EXACT same fetish (or an escort willing to oblige). With trust in… Read more »
amen !!
I have I have definitely role played and fantasized about being raped! I gotta remind myself that these are pleasureful scenes that my mind has created in which I end up liking what is done to me. In real life this would not be the case. It would probably by… Read more »
Honestly- this is not good for your mental health. I used to have this fetish. It was rooted in abuse. sorry. I think this is out of style like crossing bathrooms are out. Try getting off another way. Also fetished this and moved on after 30 as I was… Read more »
It was not right FOR YOU.
It was based in abuse FOR YOU.
That’s certainly not the case for everyone.
Don’t paint with too-wide a brush. It never tends to end well.
Forced sex fantasies have psychological roots and personal and social impacts. Sure explore it and move on if you are a mentally stable person. it is a fact however that abusive past leads to these fetishization – I had it. It lead and keep fueling low self esteem. When you… Read more »
I completely see how someone could get into this cycle and it be a terrible long term behavior. You realized it. You moved on. That’s fantastic. However, don’t discount that there are millions of mentally healthy people out there who simply want something other than the missionary position. They function ‘normally’ otherwise, but… Read more »
This sort of fantasy requires more than a couple of big asks from your top.
Earned absolute trust. (Prior meets)
Excellent acting, including experience with non-damaging physical combat. (A stage actor?)
Significant turn on – hot for you and for the scenario.
In a perfect world, you’d be exactly right. However, this isn’t a perfect world and truly anonymous, unplanned sex turns a lot of guys on. While letting their dick do all the thinking, I’ve heard some incredible (both sexy and stupid) stories of situations people have gotten themselves into. With many… Read more »
I have not found that perfect rape fantasy experience yet. Don’t mind having a dominant top manhandle me and have his way.
As a a top I love to manhandle and play rough when dominating, of course communication is key.
Agreed. I’m a total wuss when it comes to pain.
I think everyone should play out their sexual fantasies while our libido and bodies still can. I came out of the closet after my divorce in my 30s and I’ve been experimenting with abandon in a way making up for the lost time… Back to the topic! I particularly do… Read more »
Rape fantasy is pretty common and simulated rape is very hot. Make sure you have a safe word or another means of interrupting a scene if things get too rough (which is okay to do). Actually being raped, not so much, doesn’t matter how hot the rapist is.
It isIt is more like a domination/slave/conquered situation (like S&M??) I find that hot (in fantasy)!!!…..and if I like the hunks…. If it was real I would be probably horrified more like a domination/slave/conquered situation (like S&M??) I find that hot (in fantasy)!!!…..and if I like the hunks…. If it… Read more »
I’m turned on by being manhandled and controlled. I suppose that could be considered rape fantasy. I’m sure the reality is quite different.
Is it wrong to want this? For myself, mind you, or perhaps as a third party with a top and consenting bottom. “But that’s not rape,” you’ll say. Okay… Simulated rape. I talked to a provider I trust and he’s willing to go along with idea, whenever we can get… Read more »