I did Findom with a guy for some time now. I tell him to go to the mall with me, point to some item…socks, underwear, etc and have him pay for it. Now I’ve started allowing him to look for jeans or pants and I go to the changing room and… Read more »
DeMarco
Financial domination doesn’t have to include physical or verbal domination.
And yes, you can find a trustworthy escort who understands this kink and can play along accordingly.
Do your homework. Be super clear about expectations and how far you’re wanting to take the scene.
I think if you wanted to be a little safer with this you can use credit cards with low credit limits or refillable debit cards when you’re out with escorts. Only put in the money that you can truly afford/want to spend but then allow them to use it as… Read more »
and by the way just to be clear. I am 55, VGL, stable, happy, friendly guy – I have no trouble dating and having relationships which have nothing to do with money… But this fantasy really appeals to me, and the more real it would get, the hotter. I think.… Read more »
DeMarco
I’ve got a rather unusual problem. I’d love any advice. My hottest fantasy at this stage of my life involves giving money to a dominant lover. It’s similar to “FINDOM” but without the heavy humiliation/insulting quality. I”m not into that – or sending money to strangers – no I want… Read more »
I have always found being kept in a certain style very worthwhile, and I have always been worthwhile to be around – if the chemistry is there of course. I went down he sugar daddy route when I was a young adult – I found that the demands were too… Read more »
I did Findom with a guy for some time now. I tell him to go to the mall with me, point to some item…socks, underwear, etc and have him pay for it. Now I’ve started allowing him to look for jeans or pants and I go to the changing room and… Read more »
Financial domination doesn’t have to include physical or verbal domination.
And yes, you can find a trustworthy escort who understands this kink and can play along accordingly.
Do your homework. Be super clear about expectations and how far you’re wanting to take the scene.
I think if you wanted to be a little safer with this you can use credit cards with low credit limits or refillable debit cards when you’re out with escorts. Only put in the money that you can truly afford/want to spend but then allow them to use it as… Read more »
This is sage advice.
and by the way just to be clear. I am 55, VGL, stable, happy, friendly guy – I have no trouble dating and having relationships which have nothing to do with money… But this fantasy really appeals to me, and the more real it would get, the hotter. I think.… Read more »
I’ve got a rather unusual problem. I’d love any advice. My hottest fantasy at this stage of my life involves giving money to a dominant lover. It’s similar to “FINDOM” but without the heavy humiliation/insulting quality. I”m not into that – or sending money to strangers – no I want… Read more »
My love language has always been receiving gifts, so don’t give up – your Dom is out there! 😜
I think framing it in terms of “love languages” might be a safer bet than “FIndom” which seems to invite abuse I don’t want. Thank you Sir
I have always found being kept in a certain style very worthwhile, and I have always been worthwhile to be around – if the chemistry is there of course. I went down he sugar daddy route when I was a young adult – I found that the demands were too… Read more »